Psychological experts said: everyone has the death impulse

Instantly appear for discount, drowning, a blade, the intention is not terrible.

Have you ever had jumped from a height of impulse? once wanted to join the driving traffic? had not occurred to curb to be drowning, is cutting scenes? you may find these extremes too "BT", not "normal"; but "biting" and "want to tattoo" this kind of thinking is not very common? at the very least, "money is not important, do not bring, die without going to the" this sentence should proactively said? but do you know that in the eyes of psychology experts, these three classes is not the situation in fact no dajie, at least from the psychological reasons, they are derived from the same human inborn capabilities — death instinct.

Nevertheless, we often own sudden extreme ideas. According to the study and the Beijing psychological crisis intervention Center statistics, the national average of suicide deaths 28.7 million. We saw in the moment of death impulse is one day really into suicide action? and God made man, why not leave such an "self-destruction" back door ", and then put the keys in the US, often in the rational and irrational wandering hands between the pain?

Death instinct innate and has a positive effect

"Almost all of them are in the subconscious of the underlying death instinct. It corresponds with the instinct of health, which constitute the most important human mind underlying two instinctive forces. "Listening to journalists about the Sichuan Institute of Austronesian counseling, Chief Consultant to ride very calmly explain this phenomenon. "Almost all" this stunning proportion in reporter's famous psychologists zhujianjun professors and Beijing huilongguan hospital wards Guo Xu Fang, also confirmed.

People tend to the mind of fleeting things difficult to cause sufficient attention. But precisely this "Flash read" revealed the secret of human life and death. First find it if you live to be 150 years old today, already, but our lives are always in his theory, repeat. This man is Freud.

Instantly jump from emerging, drowning, and so death impulse is death instinct features

Freud in 1920 the principle transcends the only music book "born instinct" and "death instinct," a set of relative concept. "Health" including people's instinctive defensive instinct and sexual instinct. "Death instinct" refers to each of us has a tendency to destroy and aggressive impulses.

"News that want to jump down from the upper floors of the young person's case is only death instinct death impulses. "The journey told reporters, like people in extremely happy cry, when extreme happiness moment will hope to die, extreme desperation will glow with strong health, this is the raw instincts and death instinct of conversion. "Death instinct to attack, damage and destruction. Death instinct outward manifestation, reflection, and to harm others, to humanity, the highest form of war reached its peak; death instinct in development is reflected on the self-life of negation, self-destruction and suicide. And instincts and death instinct conversion constitutes a person's life. ”

"People have a lot of instinct, death instinct is born from a start. And human survival instinct, death instinct is present in the human subconscious. "Guo Xu Fang huilongguan Hospital Director in the mental ward work for many years, for the life and death of the life eternal topic has a better understanding of," some people may not recognize or awareness of his own death instinct. As long as one person thought to die, this is the death instinct performance. "

Human death instinct is abandoned and the escape of defence vindictive. Many people often say that money is not brought, die without going to that when people say that time may only be inside a dreary, but in fact this is what death instinct.

Emotional reaches a certain strength and hope with fanciful "end" to put this experience still

And severe depression desperate yearning for death of morbid psychology, the moment of death impulses closer to a specific emotion of mankind.

"Death impulses is the original feeling. When people face the beautiful scenery, feel particularly pleased when there might be a kind of wish individual disappears, ablation in the foreground color of the impulse. In love relationships, couples in love when it reaches the peak experience, will also have a ' If you die in this moment just fine ' feeling that people love instincts inside reaches a certain intensity values will want to hold it with death, just as with the camera in focus. Love's instinct is the most important life instinct. This and neurosis in suicide is different. Neurotic depression, suicide and suicide expression is between life and death and contradictions. "To Cheng said.

"People in front of death impulse beauty is actually the ' end ' is used to hold the good at the moment. In emotional reaches a certain strength and hope with fanciful ' dead ' to hold experience. This is completely different with the suicide. I think people want to die ' happiness ' and does not actually may actually die, only to human life limited of resignation of subverting it. ”

From here, and many literary greats have been in the works on the death of attitude, that you can understand. Tagore said: "like summer flowers and dead autunm". In his writings, death and survival, so beautiful; Shakespeare in the Anthony and heraclio Petra "written to" die of shock like a lover of skills, it might harm the desire to be. " They are often not the negative resistance and pessimistic, but death gives many beautiful desirable colour.

Dangerous situation is also easy to wake the dead, and emotional and the instinctive bodily mutilation can partially curbed death self-flagellation impulse

"The young man has to go down death impulse response is quite normal. "The Professor replies so zhujianjun reporters," and the death of manifestations and dangerous form corresponds,

Any kind of danger exists, a corresponding death impulse of forms exist. For example, some people with a knife, there may be a knife will own scratching see blood trickle out, even the knife will own rolling die impulse. There's a gun in hand, you may also be generated on a your own head to the impulse of a gun. ”

"Dangerous situations, even sometimes self-flagellation and self-mutilation, makes death instinct by pressing the survival instinct. "Guo Xu Fang is of the opinion that the person with a non-mainstream character, may be tearing their hair, knife to cut yourself," but sometimes hurt yourself, let them feel the pain, but avoid suicide, "she said, such as, for example, child is the person in order to punish his knife cut themselves, when severe pain, the pain will make him feel that on the one hand, to punish yourself for reducing your own was gone, and on the other hand, let him freed feel pain, but feel that life's precious, thereby avoiding the suicide. While some people will pass some mild self-flagellation to satisfy their potential death impulses and instinct.

News background

Instantly jump from impulse by many users understand

According to 2 July in a media, a young man in Beijing Fujian traveled two days later, near the high 30 layers of fur on the top floor overlooking the panoramic view of the capital building, then suddenly arise from 30 layer jump impulses, fortunately, was the police arrive and building staff saved. When the boy was rescued after told reporters that he saw at the top of the beautiful scenery, instantly wanted to rush into, so have the urge to jump off.

This message also appears in Beijing than print media. Day on the network are hundreds of websites and forums. SINA, Sohu, the portal site, the user has threads. Curiously, weekdays valiantly, and even to criticize the majority of this style of threads "reversal" — nearly 92 per cent of the attitude of "one-sided", the man jump impulse response was expressed.

SINA BBS of one: "I have this feeling, and coccyx Department also will have some sort of feel, may be the evolutionary process ape-man era tree memory residues", more friends have said: "but said the truth, I stand at the high point of the upstairs looking down when there is a misconception that want to experience the feeling of jump off, so I generally do not dare to seeing, feeling very dire, indeed, seems to have magic attract me!", some people think "overdone it, you also need to be ' saved ' first moved to the top, I often have the feeling, then get used to it. ”

Journalists in a small, organized within the scope of a micro-survey of almost all the respondents have had a similar death impulse!, five of whom had jumped from a height of impulse, 2 person ever rushed into the traffic flow, one had a knife cutting veins of impulse, one has to fire, 1 person once wanted to be drowned in a swimming pool. However to participate in the survey also indicates that the mere impulse, will not be implemented.

Journalists dialogue

"I wanted to jump down from the 20 level."

Journalists trying to contact to a message in the Sina, referring to his own death impulses through a Netizen Zhang Dongxu, engaged in a dialogue with him:

Beike reported: see this message, your first impression? feel shocked?

Zhang Dongxu: don't think anything, because I had such an impulse. I agree with his ideas.

Beike reported that you would like him to jump down?

Zhang Dongxu: no, I just have impulse, just impulses, turn around, and you'll forget it.

Beike report: are you the kind of scene this impulse?

Zhang Dongxu: I haven't the impulses that have only recently. I used to live in 2 floor, recently moved to the 20th floor. Every day after work just like sipping at outside view. Look to this impulse.

Beike reported: scenery beautiful?

Zhang Dongxu: beauty in my family is able to see the West railway station in the tower and Beijing TV Tower, especially the evening special. Downstairs is a neon light, the distance is lined by buildings in dark lighting, in Manhattan. Very good.

Beike reported: when you find yourself in such a moment when you think of death impulse overtakes? still felt very normal?

Zhang Dongxu: the beginning is very afraid of, felt suddenly had to die is not wrong with my head. Later and colleagues, friends, we talked, found that almost all have this impulse, just think of different content. I felt this should be a person's normal reaction.

Beike reported: they are manifestations?

Zhang Dongxu: there are like me and have the impulse to jump off from upstairs. Some want to jump from the bridge, some even wanted to tiaojing, anyway, what kind of fragmented,.

Beike, La: for you, there is a death impulse is a serious matter?

Zhang Dongxu: I don't feel anything. Anyway, just think, think also? originally was very impulsive animals, occasionally there is a death impulse is also very good, why not to elevate.

Expert perspectives

You do not have to fear death instinct

If death does occur frequently, the impulse to more easily lead to suicide

"Raw instincts and death instinct has two kinds of relationships," Cheng said, "to a mutual struggle, contradictory relations. This thinking of suicide, neurosis patients demonstrated more. Often manifests as a survival instinct is repressed death instinct contest; the other is the most natural and most original mutual conversion. Health is the cause of death, cause of death is born, both on each other, this is the instinct of health an extreme forms of expression. This death impulses and neurosis is fundamentally different. "Ordinary daily life in death

Surviving desire should belong to the first, is natural.

As a reporter in the investigation into the death of some description to impulse the survival instinct is also not suppress the death instinct. The range is of the opinion that death instinct in these cases is not a confrontation, but conversion, coordination, harmonization of relations.

If death impulses often appear, you need to carry out psychological adjustment

"I think there is no need for the occasional death impulses are afraid that just as people do not need to fear the nightmare. "Some people to ride for excessive worries expressed in the negative," people will subconsciously with frightening scenes and imaginative expression a is not frightening, even the good wishes. Maybe we just need to fully understand and appreciate their own death instinct and death impulses of the significance, reveals the truth behind the surface, do not always suspect you have the dead impulse is defective, is not wrong to commit suicide. ”

"Now the psychological treatment, doctors are also used to use disease perspective on death phenomenon, this is a note. I think it should be from psychoanalysis, existential perspective, phenomenological perspective. ”

Guo Xu Fang also advised us that "we need not concern yourself too much deliberately death instinct, as he occasionally from a small idea, just like people will feel hunger and weary, this is a very common instinct, let it be just fine. But if you are sick, it is not a death instinct death impulses, it must be timely recourse to specialized doctors. ”

Extended reading

Tattoo, bite the fingers are death instinct features

Many young people like tattoo, think this is a stylish but Guo Xu fang thinks: "fashion is just an excuse, this crowd and some can be edge personality traits. "They will pass from injuries and suicide for pleasure, and suppress the urge to hold. Death instinct impulse is precisely through self-mutilation and self-flagellation been released. They used a lighter injuries to indulge a little on the yearning for death.

Biting behavior, may also be death instinct a subtle manifestation. Bite the fingers of adults, on the one hand, it may be because childhood is parents ignore the lack of love, and the extension of the alternative with thumb spells nipple pleasure, but on the other hand, biting also is a kind of self-flagellation, can't bite your finger is pain or pleasure. Maybe they are bitten to avoid loneliness, to meet. Maybe they are bitten fingers this mild self-flagellation to satisfy their potential death instinct.

Expert introduction

Guo Xu Fang, huilongguan hospital wards. Specialty areas: mental disorder Morita therapy and family therapy. Main results: of the schizophrenia patient attribution and memory study, patients with obsessive-compulsive disorder 7 cases of structural family therapy, modern medical model of significance in psychological diagnosis, classification and principles.

The journey, senior consultant, Sichuan Institute of Austronesian counseling, principal consultant, renowned expert counseling and treatment. Professional specialty: emotional parent-child relationship and marriage counselling, neurotic, sexual and psychological disorders and abnormal sexual behaviors correction, short-course of psychoanalysis, hypnotic and image-guided, life development counselling, occupational psychological guidance and marketing psychology training.

Terminology explained

"Death instinct" and "hygiene instinct": this is Freud in 1920 the principle transcends the only music in a book. "Health" including people's instinctive defensive instinct and sexual instinct. "The concept of death instinct" and "hygiene instinct", refers to each of us has a tendency to destroy and aggressive impulses.

Death impulse: death impulse (death-wish) refers to the desire of people to self-destruct. Life impulses and death impulse is instinct forces (libido) in the different circumstances of different rendering.

Freud's death instinct people dying, so only real quiet. Only death, people can fully unlock the tension and struggle.

Easy to produce death impulse of 10 scenarios:

1, in the 20 storey high-rise building down while overlooking the beautiful scenery.

2, in the vast expanse of sea watching the tide.

3. hands holding a sharp knife.

4, standing on the bridge looking down at the river flowing through the rolls.

5, stand in the road watching rushing traffic.

6, waited in the sink at the end of the swimming pool.

7, couples in love.

8, in the face of a table with delicious food.

9, on the steep mountain view in all directions.

10, when the cars speeding on the highway, when people in the car.