Scientists in Russia and in the suburbs of Moscow city study confirms: the child in the grandmother's influence will only become more talent — — —
■ Brought up by his grandmother more gifted children
"Any parents love said: Grandma will spoil his grandson. In fact, this statement is incorrect. "Russia Academy of Sciences Institute of psychology research staff Tatiana · quarter mirova Fok. Her first in Moscow city, a private school, from the first year and second-year total of 30 students, for their creativity and intelligence tests, the results surprised her.
Results show that those who brought up by his grandmother, his creative potential to 40% higher! that is to say, they way of thinking than peers more strange, distress is easy to conclude that an original solution easier to arrive at new solutions, which is the genius who possess characteristics.
However the potential return potential, they brought up by his grandmother grandson of intelligence baby handyman, than children of parents with low 10%. This may not mean that they are the latter clumsy, but an indication of their learning up to more difficult, more difficult to adapt to the school's curriculum.
These results are also needed for further validation. Maybe in students from low-income families in the general school situation differ? in order to explore the truth, sticho mirova again to go grab a suburb of a secondary school.
■ Indulgent there's nothing wrong with
Participating in this test there are 180 third year and fourth-year students, their parents and Grandma. Results? Grandma big children's creativity and again 28% higher than their peers. What happened? how these retired person is given a gift of grandchildren?
Tatiana · sticho mirova believes this is education approach. Because the investigation has shown that grandma who more often than parents and give them praise children adequate performance space chosen and self, they are always responsive, anything from their child, it is precisely this kind of "tolerated" helps children develop creativity. While the parents of the strict requirements and frequently harsh punishment, but on the contrary, the educational methods of the educational methods will kill a child's talent.
■ Appropriate abuse can, but not too much
Even so, it is also the intellectual level how? does the grandmother who really make the grandson of his intellectual change?, thank goodness, is absolutely not true. In the Moscow suburban high school, from "Grandma" and the "parents" with children have shown considerable intellectual level. But it is interesting to note that psychologist concluded: a plain common sense Grandma adheres to the "soft" education law no intelligence, but their parents being taught by intelligence but rather the "developed". Their strict demands, their supervision of the growth of the child's ability to play a catalytic role. However, do not blindly optimistic, because the child's intelligence to a large extent and genetic-related, with the acquired education compared to 61% weighting. Moreover, even if the child's intelligence is not high, it can still be remedied, the key is to not let your child's mental unchecked, you should give it direction. For example, has been confirmed, more independent action and no choice of the information received is lossy intelligence: when the children all day staring at TV screens, their brain will no longer work, information becomes similar to chew gum, etc for things that have no spiritual food. It is necessary to help children arranged free time and to get information for selection.
Just don't be overkill. Because the best education methods also have their dual nature, on the one hand, to increase intelligence, on the other hand is a man of great talent and personality to sprout of trample. Dotes not extreme
So that children can count boldly to Grandma to charge, let them go and spoil-that the child maltreatment by parents and also be able to find some balance. But if home without my grandmother? that's only myself when when Grandma, sometimes use "soft" education methods. As for those who think Grandma "unchecked" totally destroy the child's parents, advising them in spite of the busy and not whether the child's education.
You can enable them to participate in some activities, to buy some must read books, as they came up with some obligations, took them to the Museum go to walk. Sticho mirova also warned that: there is no need to change the attitude of his grandson, her grandmother, because it is they exert on children's talent 51%.
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"I'm a Grandpa and Grandma. Grandpa is a serious man, Grandma is the Sun in my life. We are not related by blood, my father is her baoyang, but she also than parents and Grandma. She always told my little name Ilyushin sand, each time you go out and visit to bring me back to the biscuits and confectionery, every time I was anxious wait for her to go home. Her excuse I've done, always trying to protect me and wouldn't let me eat any hard time. ”
— Russia, the famous poet IRIA · REZNIK goes
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